Bob Fiske
Reciprocity – Like Water to Fish, Part Seven
Using the Noble
currency. In the last section I
introduced the Noble, a new unit of currency that is the antithesis of
conventional reciprocity-based currency.
The point of the Noble is to give something away without expecting
anything in return. The hope is that the
favor so performed will inspire the recipient to pay the benefit forward to
someone else. The back side of the Noble
is designed with multiple pay-it-forward lines.
Thus, favors can be paid forward through a series of people. There are two points I can make about the
usage of Nobles.
First, what is the experience of Person A giving a Noble to
Person B. If I give this card to Person
B, then I am “putting myself out there”.
I am declaring that I am available for doing a generous act of some kind
without knowing in advance
what that act will be. This can be a
little bit threatening. Do I really want
to commit myself in such a way? What if
the person asks me to do something unreasonably difficult?
One answer to this fear is indicated by the phrase on the
bottom of the front of the card. It says
“For example, one hour of my time”. This
will, hopefully communicate that the recipient should make a reasonable request of the
giver. Another answer might be as
follows: everything is open to negotiation.
For instance, I could say to Person B, “I’m sorry, but that is more than
I can do right now. Here is what I am
willing to do for you.” A third answer might
be to remind the person that he or she will have to pay forward a favor of similar magnitude. In other words, suppose Person B asks me to
buy a car. If I agree to do this, then I
would be within my rights to suggest to Person B that he or she will have to
buy somebody else a car in the future.
I am sure that a lot of people reading this might be
thinking, How do I know that I can trust the recipient of the card to act
honorably and pay the favor forward?
Let’s face reality. You don’t
know. Giving a Noble is an act of faith
in the goodness of the human species.
Yet, we know that there are people out there that don’t act nobly and
who take advantage of others. Now, isn’t
that the way of the world?
What I mean is this.
If we start with the presumption that everyone is a criminal, then our
behavior will sink to that level of selfishness. However, if we want to bring out the best in
people, we’ll probably get there faster through the positive assumption of
goodness than the negative assumption of criminality. It takes a certain degree of character to
make yourself an example through your actions, especially when it does not
appear to be the popular thing to do. It
takes a measure of nobility to act that way.
Please remember one thing.
By using the Noble currency, you are not trying to change another human
being. Rather you are trying to change
yourself. But, if it makes you feel
better, then just pass the card to somebody to whom you feel kindly
disposed. In other words, give it to
somebody you trust, like a friend.
Here is the second point I can make about this card. Because there is room on the back side to
list multiple names and pass this card around, each Noble has a life! I find
this exciting. The currency will record
its own history of being used. Imagine
getting a Noble that has lots of names on the back. Wouldn’t that convince the recipient that
this idea was valued by a group of people?
Wouldn’t that make the recipient feel like part of a living chain of
people with an idea and an action?
Epilogue. In this essay I have described an idea that I
found. Or maybe it found me! Not only that, this idea consumed me! And therefore, I felt it was worth sharing
with others. I have tried to express the
idea as a sequence of thoughts and to make a clear argument. My hope is that you find this essay to be
persuasive, even compelling.
Maybe I didn’t succeed in doing that. Maybe you still have reservations. In that case, I have just a single suggestion
for you. Do a small act of
nobility. The next time you get a nickel
back as part of your change at the store, put that coin down on the sidewalk
for someone else to find.
Want two final questions to chew on? Think carefully! Are you willing to do a favor for a person,
any person? More importantly, can you
find it within yourself to allow someone to do a favor for you—and not repay
the debt back to that person?
Summary of Part
Seven. Having put forth the
Noble as a new currency, we consider two questions. First, is it safe to use this currency? Will others take advantage of your
generosity? Some suggestions for
diminishing this risk are stated.
However, the ultimate answer is that using the Noble is a way to change
yourself. The second question approaches
this from a different angle: a Noble shows its users. The aim of the new currency is to change
human behavior, one person at a time. Seeing a list of names on the back of a Noble can
communicate motivation to the recipient of a Noble: if these people are acting
differently, then maybe I can, too. Some
final thoughts hinge on the ideas of choice and willingness. To change my behavior is, first and foremost,
a choice to do something different, something unusual and uncomfortable. I pose this discomfort as two parting
questions that dare the reader to examine his or her willingness to try on the
uncomfortable notion of giving and receiving favors.